Chloe Hadjimatheou

And he was quite badly hurt?

And he was quite badly hurt?

And like, what, you really hurt him?

And like, what, you really hurt him?

Oh, fucking hell.

Oh, fucking hell.

Gareth ist out of control. Still, he says the school never tries to find out what's going on with him. None of the teachers ever mention Miss Bowen to him again. Just before Christmas, the school calls his parents in to say if they don't remove Gareth voluntarily, then the school will expel him. They quietly got rid of Miss Bowen. Now they've quietly got rid of her alleged victim too.

Gareth ist out of control. Still, he says the school never tries to find out what's going on with him. None of the teachers ever mention Miss Bowen to him again. Just before Christmas, the school calls his parents in to say if they don't remove Gareth voluntarily, then the school will expel him. They quietly got rid of Miss Bowen. Now they've quietly got rid of her alleged victim too.

Der Gareth, den ich in den letzten Jahren kennengelernt habe, ist ein sehr bemerkenswert und intelligenter Mann. Aber er ist auch jemand mit Angst und Paranoia. Ich kann das sehen. Aber was ich mich nicht zuerst auf den Finger legen konnte, war, wie genau seine Beziehung zu einer älteren Frau die Probleme, die er heute hat, geleitet hat.

Der Gareth, den ich in den letzten Jahren kennengelernt habe, ist ein sehr bemerkenswert und intelligenter Mann. Aber er ist auch jemand mit Angst und Paranoia. Ich kann das sehen. Aber was ich mich nicht zuerst auf den Finger legen konnte, war, wie genau seine Beziehung zu einer älteren Frau die Probleme, die er heute hat, geleitet hat.

Miss Bowen normalised her desires before Gareth could even begin to explore and understand his own. And he says some of her desires were quite kinky. But Gareth wouldn't have known that. He had nothing to compare it to. So then, when it came to girls his own age, his expectations would often be frightening for them.

Miss Bowen normalised her desires before Gareth could even begin to explore and understand his own. And he says some of her desires were quite kinky. But Gareth wouldn't have known that. He had nothing to compare it to. So then, when it came to girls his own age, his expectations would often be frightening for them.

By the time he's 16, Gareth's relationship with his mum has broken down completely. All the lies have poisoned things between them and she asks him to leave home. At this point, Gareth's in a really bad way.

By the time he's 16, Gareth's relationship with his mum has broken down completely. All the lies have poisoned things between them and she asks him to leave home. At this point, Gareth's in a really bad way.

I've spoken to a lawyer. He and his firm have represented thousands of sexual abuse survivors in legal cases against all sorts of institutions. He's even worked with victims of Jimmy Savile. And he tells me the average age for his clients to come forward, particularly male clients, is between 35 and 50 years old.

I've spoken to a lawyer. He and his firm have represented thousands of sexual abuse survivors in legal cases against all sorts of institutions. He's even worked with victims of Jimmy Savile. And he tells me the average age for his clients to come forward, particularly male clients, is between 35 and 50 years old.

It often takes more than a quarter of a century before they're ready to face what happened to them. When his moment comes, Gareth's in his early 40s. Bang on average. He's spent decades holding his secret. He's never admitted it to his mum, though he has confided in a couple of girlfriends and then his wife.

It often takes more than a quarter of a century before they're ready to face what happened to them. When his moment comes, Gareth's in his early 40s. Bang on average. He's spent decades holding his secret. He's never admitted it to his mum, though he has confided in a couple of girlfriends and then his wife.

For years it's actually been a point of pride that his first relationship was with a much older teacher at school.

For years it's actually been a point of pride that his first relationship was with a much older teacher at school.