Chris Duffy

even where to begin figuring it out.

How can they begin to guide themselves through that immense uncertainty?

Or even to just view it in a way that allows them to start taking actions and not just feel completely paralyzed by it?

How did writing this new book change how you thought about everything you'd learned about jobs in the first book?

What if someone is in a job that they do not like?

They feel like this is really unpleasant.

I am not liking my day to day.

I'm dreading going to work on Mondays.

But I don't have a clear next step.

Should I quit?

Should I stay?

How do you deal with that kind of uncertainty?

What about in friendships?

There is, especially in the beginning of a new friendship, so much of the barrier, I feel, is the uncertainty.

Do they actually like me?

Do they want to hang out with me?

Is it weird if I meet this person in the park and then say, hey, can I get your number so we can just hang out as friends?

Or should I not do that?

So much of what stops us from actually making deeper social connections with friends is uncertainty around what is or is not

Allowed, normal, wanted, desired.