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Chris Fettes

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The Shawn Ryan Show
#156 Chris Fettes - A SEAL Team 6 Sniper’s Worst Nightmare

But I also have those memories about my father and him, the way he grabbed me to talk to me, to like, you know, I just have memories of him sitting next to me. You know, he had a thick mustache. And the energy that I remember was not good. You know, that... biological connection between a father and son I felt I don't think was there, right?

The Shawn Ryan Show
#156 Chris Fettes - A SEAL Team 6 Sniper’s Worst Nightmare

But I also have those memories about my father and him, the way he grabbed me to talk to me, to like, you know, I just have memories of him sitting next to me. You know, he had a thick mustache. And the energy that I remember was not good. You know, that... biological connection between a father and son I felt I don't think was there, right?

The Shawn Ryan Show
#156 Chris Fettes - A SEAL Team 6 Sniper’s Worst Nightmare

Because when you're drowned in your addictions, when you're, you know, when you're that, it's blocking you, you know? And then I saw this in Afghanistan, you know, with different, I kind of correlate it together because I go, how, and it even relates to the story, is how some fathers don't have that for some reason, whatever it is, whether it's the ideology that they're,

The Shawn Ryan Show
#156 Chris Fettes - A SEAL Team 6 Sniper’s Worst Nightmare

Because when you're drowned in your addictions, when you're, you know, when you're that, it's blocking you, you know? And then I saw this in Afghanistan, you know, with different, I kind of correlate it together because I go, how, and it even relates to the story, is how some fathers don't have that for some reason, whatever it is, whether it's the ideology that they're,

The Shawn Ryan Show
#156 Chris Fettes - A SEAL Team 6 Sniper’s Worst Nightmare

Because when you're drowned in your addictions, when you're, you know, when you're that, it's blocking you, you know? And then I saw this in Afghanistan, you know, with different, I kind of correlate it together because I go, how, and it even relates to the story, is how some fathers don't have that for some reason, whatever it is, whether it's the ideology that they're,

The Shawn Ryan Show
#156 Chris Fettes - A SEAL Team 6 Sniper’s Worst Nightmare

practicing, you know, where we know in some of that terrorist culture, some of that Taliban, you know, and different types of those, you know, extremist cultures, like what I witnessed was, and from talking and eating with Afghans is that the wife and the son or any children are servants to the men and that's their role, you know?

The Shawn Ryan Show
#156 Chris Fettes - A SEAL Team 6 Sniper’s Worst Nightmare

practicing, you know, where we know in some of that terrorist culture, some of that Taliban, you know, and different types of those, you know, extremist cultures, like what I witnessed was, and from talking and eating with Afghans is that the wife and the son or any children are servants to the men and that's their role, you know?

The Shawn Ryan Show
#156 Chris Fettes - A SEAL Team 6 Sniper’s Worst Nightmare

practicing, you know, where we know in some of that terrorist culture, some of that Taliban, you know, and different types of those, you know, extremist cultures, like what I witnessed was, and from talking and eating with Afghans is that the wife and the son or any children are servants to the men and that's their role, you know?

The Shawn Ryan Show
#156 Chris Fettes - A SEAL Team 6 Sniper’s Worst Nightmare

not like here in a healthy father-son relationship where you go, they're not my servants, I respect them. They're people with choices. And I've made a decision to try my best to create the best environment for them. And even that's not gonna be perfect. There's gonna be some resentment about something. But you just try your best.

The Shawn Ryan Show
#156 Chris Fettes - A SEAL Team 6 Sniper’s Worst Nightmare

not like here in a healthy father-son relationship where you go, they're not my servants, I respect them. They're people with choices. And I've made a decision to try my best to create the best environment for them. And even that's not gonna be perfect. There's gonna be some resentment about something. But you just try your best.

The Shawn Ryan Show
#156 Chris Fettes - A SEAL Team 6 Sniper’s Worst Nightmare

not like here in a healthy father-son relationship where you go, they're not my servants, I respect them. They're people with choices. And I've made a decision to try my best to create the best environment for them. And even that's not gonna be perfect. There's gonna be some resentment about something. But you just try your best.

The Shawn Ryan Show
#156 Chris Fettes - A SEAL Team 6 Sniper’s Worst Nightmare

And so I think that goes missing in today's society sometimes to go to realize like, You do what I say because I told you so. level past that, but... Do you... Do you have siblings? Yeah, I have two sisters. One's my half-sister from my stepfather, who... The next part of my childhood is that my mother met him and remarried, and thank God, because he's a good man.

The Shawn Ryan Show
#156 Chris Fettes - A SEAL Team 6 Sniper’s Worst Nightmare

And so I think that goes missing in today's society sometimes to go to realize like, You do what I say because I told you so. level past that, but... Do you... Do you have siblings? Yeah, I have two sisters. One's my half-sister from my stepfather, who... The next part of my childhood is that my mother met him and remarried, and thank God, because he's a good man.

The Shawn Ryan Show
#156 Chris Fettes - A SEAL Team 6 Sniper’s Worst Nightmare

And so I think that goes missing in today's society sometimes to go to realize like, You do what I say because I told you so. level past that, but... Do you... Do you have siblings? Yeah, I have two sisters. One's my half-sister from my stepfather, who... The next part of my childhood is that my mother met him and remarried, and thank God, because he's a good man.

The Shawn Ryan Show
#156 Chris Fettes - A SEAL Team 6 Sniper’s Worst Nightmare

And I didn't know that growing up. We were at ends. You know, I said and did things like, you're not my father, when I got angry as a teenager, and I... go back to that now and like, I want to apologize. I have apologized for that because everything that he did, He's a very quiet guy, very stoic. He grew up on a farm, also with a very difficult childhood, but at least was able to make a decision.

The Shawn Ryan Show
#156 Chris Fettes - A SEAL Team 6 Sniper’s Worst Nightmare

And I didn't know that growing up. We were at ends. You know, I said and did things like, you're not my father, when I got angry as a teenager, and I... go back to that now and like, I want to apologize. I have apologized for that because everything that he did, He's a very quiet guy, very stoic. He grew up on a farm, also with a very difficult childhood, but at least was able to make a decision.

The Shawn Ryan Show
#156 Chris Fettes - A SEAL Team 6 Sniper’s Worst Nightmare

And I didn't know that growing up. We were at ends. You know, I said and did things like, you're not my father, when I got angry as a teenager, and I... go back to that now and like, I want to apologize. I have apologized for that because everything that he did, He's a very quiet guy, very stoic. He grew up on a farm, also with a very difficult childhood, but at least was able to make a decision.

The Shawn Ryan Show
#156 Chris Fettes - A SEAL Team 6 Sniper’s Worst Nightmare

How do you take, I have so much more respect for stepfathers that actually take on or adopt someone's kids that aren't theirs for the woman that they love. Because that's a hard thing to do, to be a father without that biological connection. To teach them how to ride a bike, to teach them.

The Shawn Ryan Show
#156 Chris Fettes - A SEAL Team 6 Sniper’s Worst Nightmare

How do you take, I have so much more respect for stepfathers that actually take on or adopt someone's kids that aren't theirs for the woman that they love. Because that's a hard thing to do, to be a father without that biological connection. To teach them how to ride a bike, to teach them.

The Shawn Ryan Show
#156 Chris Fettes - A SEAL Team 6 Sniper’s Worst Nightmare

How do you take, I have so much more respect for stepfathers that actually take on or adopt someone's kids that aren't theirs for the woman that they love. Because that's a hard thing to do, to be a father without that biological connection. To teach them how to ride a bike, to teach them.