Chris Sullivan

So I was never sort of like curt or dismissive.

I'd be like, and sometimes I would be short.

I'd be like, thanks, bud.

I was like, I'll let you know.

You know, something like that, just so you- It's not your responsibility, too, by the way.

You know what I'm saying?

I appreciate that.

But so this conversation is about-

this this thing right kate is asking me like you know it's like everything okay between us like you've been a little short or whatnot like i just i know things must be really difficult for you and i'm really sorry for what you're going through etc and he ultimately sort of like okay like what are you apologizing about and she's like well like like like what specifically you're talking about you know and he says like this isn't

the first time a black man has been killed on camera.

So why now, right?

And she's like, ah, I don't know.

what to say, you know what I'm saying?

I'm afraid of saying the wrong thing.

And he's like, okay.

So this is interesting because like these sort of things have been happening throughout my life and we never got a chance to talk about them when I was a boy.

And one of the things that kept me from talking about them is that I was always sort of concerned about how my feelings might affect you all and not making you feel uncomfortable, right?

And so like, we're all sort of like, sister understandably is like, bro, I don't know what to do.

And I'm like, I know you don't know what to do and I don't know exactly what to do too, but I kind of just need to go and be with these people that I love, my daughters and my wife.

And the idea that you're uncomfortable is okay.