Christian Huff

You know, just like, let's just shame you and silence you.

And so I was learning how to have a voice and actually voice what I was feeling.

And that happened through my community.

So it was a friend, then it was another friend.

And it just kind of opened up with our counselor's help, with the community that we were like building and these people just really trusted people.

And all of that led to the place where by the time we got married, what was amazing was that when we got married, there was nothing that we did not know about each other at that point.

And not everyone in the room, but a lot of the people in the room knew all of it.

And they had walked with us.

That is a very great question.

I think Jordan was the catalyst that the Lord used to like, let me see that there was another way.

I didn't think that there was another way.

You know, I,

Now, that was a lifetime.

I was 28 when I shared with her for that moment.

So 28 years of secrecy, shame that have to be unraveled takes time.

And so that took a lot of time.

And I had to work through that.

But for me, I think, you know, and I had never, it wasn't like I had even thought that I'd get married because the enemy just laser focused me on my sin and that's all I could see.

And so like, I just kept focusing on that.

And it was honestly through,