Christiana

Systemic racism. So we're in this kind of very negative loop that becomes multigenerational because I think culturally sometimes we don't have the words. Someone's anxious. They may say my nerves is bad. They're not going to say that like I have anxiety.

Systemic racism. So we're in this kind of very negative loop that becomes multigenerational because I think culturally sometimes we don't have the words. Someone's anxious. They may say my nerves is bad. They're not going to say that like I have anxiety.

So there's none of the cultural language. So I'm wondering like what can we do for those children around us where they actually have internalized the idea that they are bad. The school is saying that they're a bad kid and they're on that expulsion track. How do we get...

So there's none of the cultural language. So I'm wondering like what can we do for those children around us where they actually have internalized the idea that they are bad. The school is saying that they're a bad kid and they're on that expulsion track. How do we get...

Do you know what I'm saying? Trevor, normally I agree with you when you say stuff about capitalism and office workers and the ADHD brain. I'm with you on that. But I think the ADHD brain can make you a bad partner in a relationship. Definitely. You know, I mean, like, imagine you didn't even have a job and you have all the money in the world. Oh, that's what I disagree with.

Do you know what I'm saying? Trevor, normally I agree with you when you say stuff about capitalism and office workers and the ADHD brain. I'm with you on that. But I think the ADHD brain can make you a bad partner in a relationship. Definitely. You know, I mean, like, imagine you didn't even have a job and you have all the money in the world. Oh, that's what I disagree with.

Your wife is saying to you, I need you to pick up the dry cleaning.

Your wife is saying to you, I need you to pick up the dry cleaning.

But maybe in their personal lives. And that's why I mentioned the partner thing, Tom Brady. I'm not saying he has ADHD. His life kind of fell apart when he retired, right?

But maybe in their personal lives. And that's why I mentioned the partner thing, Tom Brady. I'm not saying he has ADHD. His life kind of fell apart when he retired, right?

And then he has to go back to the thing and then, you know.

And then he has to go back to the thing and then, you know.

I don't want to look at it strictly through a heterosexual lens, but I think domestic labor is something most couples, whatever you are, struggle with. Who does the washing up? Who gets the laundry? Who's kicking today? Who's cleaning? The house needs to be in a certain way. And when you have children, that's even compounded, right? For the most part, women take on a lot of domestic labor.

I don't want to look at it strictly through a heterosexual lens, but I think domestic labor is something most couples, whatever you are, struggle with. Who does the washing up? Who gets the laundry? Who's kicking today? Who's cleaning? The house needs to be in a certain way. And when you have children, that's even compounded, right? For the most part, women take on a lot of domestic labor.

We talk about the mental load all the time. It's women doing that. And I speak to a lot of friends whose husbands have ADHD. And they're like, we're really dealing with the gender differences that come up where I'm doing a lot of the domestic labor. But this man is also forgetful. But he's not being an asshole. Do you know what I mean?

We talk about the mental load all the time. It's women doing that. And I speak to a lot of friends whose husbands have ADHD. And they're like, we're really dealing with the gender differences that come up where I'm doing a lot of the domestic labor. But this man is also forgetful. But he's not being an asshole. Do you know what I mean?

Because sometimes there's this idea that like, you know, the lazy man is like, he's struggling. He generally forgot to take out the trash, even though I can smell it. Right. He forgot to take out the trash. He didn't make the bed. He didn't pick up the dry cleaning. I organized the cleaner. You forgot to get the cash to pay the cleaner.

Because sometimes there's this idea that like, you know, the lazy man is like, he's struggling. He generally forgot to take out the trash, even though I can smell it. Right. He forgot to take out the trash. He didn't make the bed. He didn't pick up the dry cleaning. I organized the cleaner. You forgot to get the cash to pay the cleaner.

And like that can cause a lot of tension in relationships. And then you think that that person dislikes you. Because I think when you're in love with somebody, it's like, if you love me, you do this thing for me. but they're incapable of doing it.

And like that can cause a lot of tension in relationships. And then you think that that person dislikes you. Because I think when you're in love with somebody, it's like, if you love me, you do this thing for me. but they're incapable of doing it.