Cindy

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Yeah, I was having a really good time.

And then he was messaging me like every other day.

He apparently had quit smoking weed and, you know, he'd had a lot of time to think and he wants to be a better man.

And, you know, he was absolutely begging for me back.

My friends were not stoked about us getting back together, but they also just, they would support me through anything.

They've seen me be an idiot a bunch of times.

The next two years were great.

He was a different person.

There were arguments we had where he actually calmed himself down and, you know, tried a different approach and it was incredible.

And I put it down to, I was like, oh, well, maybe it's just the weed.

Maybe the weed makes him an arsehole.

And I feel like in a way it definitely did.

But yeah, something had definitely changed where he was putting in a lot more effort.

And he even went as far as to go to his friends and family and tell them that he had exaggerated a whole bunch of the things he said about me.

His friends were being a lot nicer to me, so I...

I believed that he had really changed and gone like the full mile to just make right for things that he had done and said, when we got back together, a condition of us getting back together was that he would get an STI test because he was sleeping with me and that girl, unprotected.

So I knew that I was clear, but I wanted him to go that extra mile and just do what he said he would do.

It was like a respect thing that I just needed him to do.

And he said he would do it.