Cindy

And he kept putting it off and putting it off.

And by January 2024, I had quite a bad car accident.

When he moved in with me, I quickly found out that when we sleep in the same bed, I would sort of roll down into him.

So I would sleep really tense and I'd wake up in agony.

I wouldn't be able to walk.

So...

I was sleeping on the couch for nine months.

I had a wonderful couch.

This couch was great.

Like it really saved me after that accident.

It was incredibly comfy and it was just perfect for what I needed.

So I was okay with that.

But there was maybe about two handfuls worth of times that I actually slept in bed and like I started waking up knowing that something had happened but having no recollection of it.

It just very much seemed like I had had sex.

And I know that at that time I set very clear boundaries that that wouldn't be happening until we did the test.

And there was probably about four or five mornings where I woke up and I just tell something was off and I brushed it off each time.

And then I woke up one morning and he

was actively doing things to me so when i woke up and he was penetrating me while i was asleep i sent him home to his parents for a couple days because i needed some time to just process so i sent him a message

While he was at work one day and I basically was saying to him, this is bad, this is really bad.

Like, I don't think you're registering how bad this is.