Coach Greg Adams

That's going into the 80s and 90s.

So people typically married and they married earlier.

And I typically attribute this to what we call scarcity.

So men always have scarcity.

They always tend to look at dating from a viewpoint of we don't have a lot of available women to pick from, so I gotta pick someone.

Even in the point of having sex, if a guy is, even a good looking guy, he's probably gonna deal from scarcity.

He's gonna go out to an establishment, go to a place and do a spray and pray, go out there and talk to as many women as he can to get a result of one or two.

That's operated from scarcity.

What tends to happen is the women used to operate from a place of scarcity.

They were dealing with, they're going to be an old maid.

They're going to have to have babies by 30.

They would lose their value by 25.

They didn't have a great reach of men, right?

Like it couldn't get flown out in the 1970s and 80s.

They didn't have social media to continue to advertise themselves throughout the relationship or prior to the relationship.

They certainly didn't have the ability to earn significant amount of money in

to be able to support themselves independently.

So you had women operating in greater scarcity than the men.

So then you had the perfect storm of people merging together and getting relationships.

Even a lower tier man can get a relationship easier in the past compared to today.