Colman Noctor

I bring her to camogie, I bring her to ballet, I put food on the table, I have a roof over her head.

And the child would say, but you never asked me how camogie went.

Do you know what I mean?

And so in that situation, you're talking about... Now we're getting to it.

It's not even seeing this huge part of it, feel hurt.

That's an important part too.

But I genuinely would point no fingers at the parent who's doing that and believes that because you're in this, you're on a...

a hamster wheel of just trying to get things done.

And those moments that you miss them and we all miss them.

Do you know what I mean?

And it's, it's only when it's pointed out to you that you go, ah, you know what I mean?

Gosh.

And I didn't actually think to do that or actually haven't really done that or I hadn't valued that enough.

But that, that simple intervention could change everything.

Do you know what I mean?

And it makes sometimes a symptom redundant, you know?

Yeah, we spoke recently about what you said, you should never open a conversation with in my day, right?

Because that doesn't work and it doesn't because it's not comparative.

But even worse thing that you could say and the worst thing you should ever do is your sister never did that.

Oh, right.