Connell Barrett
👤 SpeakerAppearances Over Time
Podcast Appearances
Or, I love your glasses.
Those are very cool and retro.
Genuine compliments feel warm, not creepy.
And as long as you focus on her style or vibe, don't compliment body parts, okay?
B, option B is a question.
You ask her something that makes sense to her in that context.
Say you're at Starbucks on a lazy Saturday afternoon and you're on your way up to the counter and you see a woman sitting there or next to you maybe before you order.
And you might just ask her a question.
Hey, are you thinking iced coffee today or hot coffee?
Just a simple question.
Or at the gym.
That woman gets off the treadmill.
She's over at the drinking fountain.
She's got her AirPods in.
You might say, hey, excuse me, what's on your playlist today?
What are you working out to?
Simple question, right?
And then option C is observation.
The observation is when you call out something that stands out to you.
You make an observation.