Connell Barrett
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Podcast Appearances
The more specific, the better.
So at a bar, you observe that there's that one woman who's not on her phone, like every other person there.
So you might say, hey, excuse me, I love that you're the only one here not looking at your phone.
Or you're at Starbucks.
You might say, okay, that is the largest iced coffee I've ever seen.
Damn.
Did that come in a tanker?
So again, compliment, question, observation.
Very simple.
Notice how none of these involve you doing backflips.
None of these involve you doing some planned, scripted pickup move.
Just three simple options.
And three options is plenty.
Just three.
This is flirting.
It's chatting.
It's not taking an SAT.
This ain't the bar exam.
And it's not a TED Talk.
It's not a stand-up comedy routine.