Connell Barrett
π€ SpeakerAppearances Over Time
Podcast Appearances
Very receptive.
She asked me about what I was doing, why I had all those magazines.
Before you know it, Sabrina and Connell are talking about how much we both love writing.
Finding genuine connection.
And we were on a date a couple nights later.
And she and I were talking about being boyfriend-girlfriend not long after that.
It all started with an observation that told me what to say.
And that's what I'm getting at here is the what to say method shows you how to start conversations in a very simple, light, charming way.
And in real life, and this is really important, my clients and I have found that about 9 out of 10 times you're going to get a positive response.
Somewhere between polite and positive.
Not the dreaded rejection.
Here's why.
Women don't reject friendly, normal conversation.
They reject sexual advances.
Or they reject weird, abnormal behavior.
But when you say nice tattoo or what's on your gym playlist, you're just being human.
There's nothing to reject.
Now, she may or may not want to talk with you for two, three, five minutes.
I don't know.
But what is she going to say to you?