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Connell Barrett

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How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
Stop Freezing Up IRL: How to Confidently Talk to Women Anywhere Without Overthinking

Very receptive.

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
Stop Freezing Up IRL: How to Confidently Talk to Women Anywhere Without Overthinking

She asked me about what I was doing, why I had all those magazines.

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
Stop Freezing Up IRL: How to Confidently Talk to Women Anywhere Without Overthinking

Before you know it, Sabrina and Connell are talking about how much we both love writing.

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
Stop Freezing Up IRL: How to Confidently Talk to Women Anywhere Without Overthinking

Finding genuine connection.

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
Stop Freezing Up IRL: How to Confidently Talk to Women Anywhere Without Overthinking

And we were on a date a couple nights later.

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
Stop Freezing Up IRL: How to Confidently Talk to Women Anywhere Without Overthinking

And she and I were talking about being boyfriend-girlfriend not long after that.

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
Stop Freezing Up IRL: How to Confidently Talk to Women Anywhere Without Overthinking

It all started with an observation that told me what to say.

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
Stop Freezing Up IRL: How to Confidently Talk to Women Anywhere Without Overthinking

And that's what I'm getting at here is the what to say method shows you how to start conversations in a very simple, light, charming way.

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
Stop Freezing Up IRL: How to Confidently Talk to Women Anywhere Without Overthinking

And in real life, and this is really important, my clients and I have found that about 9 out of 10 times you're going to get a positive response.

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
Stop Freezing Up IRL: How to Confidently Talk to Women Anywhere Without Overthinking

Somewhere between polite and positive.

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
Stop Freezing Up IRL: How to Confidently Talk to Women Anywhere Without Overthinking

Not the dreaded rejection.

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
Stop Freezing Up IRL: How to Confidently Talk to Women Anywhere Without Overthinking

Here's why.

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
Stop Freezing Up IRL: How to Confidently Talk to Women Anywhere Without Overthinking

Women don't reject friendly, normal conversation.

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
Stop Freezing Up IRL: How to Confidently Talk to Women Anywhere Without Overthinking

They reject sexual advances.

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
Stop Freezing Up IRL: How to Confidently Talk to Women Anywhere Without Overthinking

Or they reject weird, abnormal behavior.

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
Stop Freezing Up IRL: How to Confidently Talk to Women Anywhere Without Overthinking

But when you say nice tattoo or what's on your gym playlist, you're just being human.

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
Stop Freezing Up IRL: How to Confidently Talk to Women Anywhere Without Overthinking

There's nothing to reject.

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
Stop Freezing Up IRL: How to Confidently Talk to Women Anywhere Without Overthinking

Now, she may or may not want to talk with you for two, three, five minutes.

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
Stop Freezing Up IRL: How to Confidently Talk to Women Anywhere Without Overthinking

I don't know.

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
Stop Freezing Up IRL: How to Confidently Talk to Women Anywhere Without Overthinking

But what is she going to say to you?