Connell Barrett

How dare you ask me what I'm listening to here at the gym, you monster.

No, we have a social contact with each other to be respectful and normal and human and social.

So essentially nine out of 10 times, nothing bad will happen in terms of a bad response.

And if a woman does one out of 10 times come off as dismissive or say, I don't feel like talking.

That's fine.

That's fine.

That's not going to hurt you.

That's not going to hurt you at all.

But I love the what to say method the way I teach it anyway, because you're taking away the things that women reject.

Women reject sexual come ons.

They also just reject weird gimmicky things.

My girlfriend, Jess, was out with me once.

doing my approach training.

I take guys out into the clubs and bars of New York city and I'm literally their wingman helping them approach women.

And Jess comes out and plays wingman, sorry, wing woman for us.

And I, you know, I left her alone for a few minutes cause I was with clients and she told me that while I was gone, this guy walked up to her and said, hi there, I'm a pirate.

I'm looking for my treasure.

Will you help me find my treasure?

And it was just like this weird gimmicky thing that he said.

She basically said, you need to talk to my boyfriend for help.