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And on our first date, she brought me an orange.

The lesson here is say the first thing that you think of, not the perfect thing.

Let it be perfectly imperfect.

So moving toward the wrap up here, if you are wondering, okay, but what do I say next?

Well, the good news is once you break the ice and see how receptive a woman is, you're going to relax.

And that second and third thing to say will flow from a pretty, pretty relaxed conversation.

Okay.

The last thing I want to mention, this is really important.

I do want to level with you about something.

I owe you honesty.

Most men,

Never approach women, even when they know what to say.

Most men still don't do it.

So if you still freeze up and you still get in your head when you see a woman you want to talk to, even now knowing this what to say method, then the real problem is not knowing what to say.

The real problem is self-doubt.

Deep down, you might fear that you're just not attractive enough to women.

And if she rejects you, man, that would hurt really badly.

It would feel personal.

And I've been there.

It sucks.