Connell Barrett

Say something like, you are very distracting to me today.

You're making it very difficult for me to think clearly or to clink clearly.

Anyway, make it about her and how she is making you feel.

Don't make it about your body, okay?

Uh, do number two is if you do send photos, keep photos natural.

If she does ask for a photo, keep it casual, keep it confident, keep it G rated.

Could be your smile.

Women love a smile.

Maybe you in a well-fitted t-shirt.

Um, if she wants, if she wants some, if she straight up says, Hey, I want to see what you look like, or I want to see you maybe post-workout think attractive man, not anatomical diagram, no extreme closeups, no isolated body parts.

I never have and never will send a dick pic.

The only time I've ever sent a dick pic is the last time I was single pre-pandemic.

I was messaging a girl with a girl and she insisted on me sending a dick pic and there was no effing way I'm going to send an actual dick pic.

So I googled ginger dick pics online and found somebody else's junk because in the event...

she was trying to, this person was going to blackmail me or turn into a scam.

I wanted to be able to say, ha ha, that's not my penis.

But anyway, bottom line is don't send any isolated body parts, especially your junk, but also your nipple.

And do number three is keep it mutual.

Keep it mutual.

Make sure that she's engaged with you as you escalate to sexting.