Connell Barrett

I like to check in with a woman if I'm sexting and ask things like, hey, are you liking this?

Asking, should we do this?

Can I ask you something?

Can I ask you something that you might be excited by?

Get permission before you escalate it.

I guess is what I'm saying.

And if that woman's not sort of giving you that permission or not matching your energy and not giving that consent, pull back.

Don't do it.

And here's your ultimate don't.

Don't send anything that you wouldn't want your mom to see.

Okay.

Unless you're certain.

that she wants it.

By she, I mean your crush, not your mom.

But even then, I'm just averse to sending any kind of lascivious photo of myself, or at least I was when I was single.

And by the way, if you're unsure what she means by sexy, you could always just ask her.

She was not asking for your nipple.

If a woman says, hey, send me something sexy, ask, oh, what do you want to see?

What kind of sexy are you looking for?

Most women, women are not turned down by male body parts the way that we are turned on by female body parts.