Connell Barrett

So you could just say, hey, what kind of photo are you thinking?

Or what kind of sexy do you want to see or hear from me?

Maybe she wants sexy words.

She might say, tell me what you're going to do to me.

Or if she does want a photo, then you can proceed there if you and she both sign off on it.

Anyway, sexting works when you and she are both on the same page.

So don't improvise solo here.

Um, next time lead with words, keep photos tasteful and save the nipples for somebody who's actually seen you naked.

Okay.

That's when you want to let a woman see your nipples is when you're together, not sending photos.

Okay.

One more question.

This one's a bit more bread and butter.

No more embarrassing questions.

Uh,

This is, oh, here's a good one.

Hey, Connell, when I'm on the apps, I'm afraid to double or triple text women because I don't want to sound like I'm tryhard.

How many messages should I send before asking for a date?

Signed, Chris.

Okay, Chris, how many messages should you send before asking for a date?