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Connell Barrett

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How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
Stop Freezing Up IRL: How to Confidently Talk to Women Anywhere Without Overthinking

And then that made it easy to keep the combo going.

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
Stop Freezing Up IRL: How to Confidently Talk to Women Anywhere Without Overthinking

Got her number.

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
Stop Freezing Up IRL: How to Confidently Talk to Women Anywhere Without Overthinking

I have a client named Vikram.

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
Stop Freezing Up IRL: How to Confidently Talk to Women Anywhere Without Overthinking

Vikram is a naturally shy software engineer.

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
Stop Freezing Up IRL: How to Confidently Talk to Women Anywhere Without Overthinking

He never approached women before he and I started working together because he overthought what to say.

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
Stop Freezing Up IRL: How to Confidently Talk to Women Anywhere Without Overthinking

He's like, I don't know what to say.

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
Stop Freezing Up IRL: How to Confidently Talk to Women Anywhere Without Overthinking

I don't know what to say.

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
Stop Freezing Up IRL: How to Confidently Talk to Women Anywhere Without Overthinking

What do I say?

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
Stop Freezing Up IRL: How to Confidently Talk to Women Anywhere Without Overthinking

So I taught him the what to say framework.

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
Stop Freezing Up IRL: How to Confidently Talk to Women Anywhere Without Overthinking

And then this happens one afternoon.

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
Stop Freezing Up IRL: How to Confidently Talk to Women Anywhere Without Overthinking

I wasn't with him to watch this, but he told me about it.

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
Stop Freezing Up IRL: How to Confidently Talk to Women Anywhere Without Overthinking

He's at a coffee shop.

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
Stop Freezing Up IRL: How to Confidently Talk to Women Anywhere Without Overthinking

He notices a woman pouring five sugar packets into a drink.

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
Stop Freezing Up IRL: How to Confidently Talk to Women Anywhere Without Overthinking

Five.

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
Stop Freezing Up IRL: How to Confidently Talk to Women Anywhere Without Overthinking

Now, at that point, it's not coffee anymore.

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
Stop Freezing Up IRL: How to Confidently Talk to Women Anywhere Without Overthinking

It's a liquid pastry.

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
Stop Freezing Up IRL: How to Confidently Talk to Women Anywhere Without Overthinking

She's three packets of sugar away from a donut at that point.

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
Stop Freezing Up IRL: How to Confidently Talk to Women Anywhere Without Overthinking

But anyway, he watches this.

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
Stop Freezing Up IRL: How to Confidently Talk to Women Anywhere Without Overthinking

He goes with an observation.

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
Stop Freezing Up IRL: How to Confidently Talk to Women Anywhere Without Overthinking

He said, hey, excuse me.