Connell Barrett

He observed she needs help with her smoothie purchase.

I will tell her mangoes.

And the next thing you knew, they're having a quick little mango date together.

Adorable.

Now, I'm not going to give you marketing bullshit here.

This doesn't lead to a date with every woman.

It doesn't even lead to a date with the majority of women.

The majority of women you talk to are not going to give you their number and become your girl and go on a date with you and be their girlfriend.

I wish that was the case.

But one of them will become your girlfriend and a lot of them are going to love talking to you.

So I'm not going to pretend like every time I or a client approaches a woman, of course it doesn't always work.

But it pretty much always feels like a win because you're finally being that guy who just shoots his shot.

That's awesome.

Say the first thing of the three options, not the perfect thing.

You don't need witty, perfect lines.

You need to just literally say the first thing that enters your mind.

Here's what not to do.

Again, I'm at a Whole Foods, different situation, different woman.

I see this woman in the oranges section.

And I'm thinking, okay, beautiful woman shopping for oranges.