Connell Barrett

You can email me at connell at datingtransformation.com.

That's C-O-N-N-E-L-L.

Or you can also find me on Instagram at datingtransformation.

All right, let's get to it.

And I have a doozy of a question to start with today.

This comes to me from a man who I dubbed Connell.

vexed by voice note here's his question hey connell i just had a great first date with a total knockout and i was so excited about my date that i recorded an audio message for my trainer that said bro her boobs are ridiculous i just want to nom nom nom on them like a toddler

But then I accidentally sent a voice note to her.

I am mortified.

How do I apologize and not lose her?

I would still like to get a second date with her if I can.

Signed, his name.

And then I'm calling him vexed by voice note.

Oh, man.

So you know how you can unsend a text message?

I think Apple needs to add a reclaim your dignity button to the iPhone.

That might help you, vexed.

But the good news is sometimes a fuck up is a gift.

Sometimes a goof turns into a gift.

Here's a quick story from my dating past.