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And that's what level one is about.

Level one of flirting is about play.

You want to bring playfulness to that first date.

You want to bring a sense of play to the text messages.

Your profile should be playful, at least a little bit.

Women don't want Mr. Spock.

They don't want logical, analytical numbers guy.

They want Captain Kirk.

They want something more visceral, something more playful.

So that to me, that is what flirting is about in a word.

And had I not approached Alex that night, I would have lost out on an incredible relationship and a woman who was very important to me, who I still love as a person and love as a friend.

Okay, so that's level one.

That's an example of bringing play to your approaches.

Let's go to level two.

What is level two of flirting?

Clear statements of romantic interest.

This is...

Probably the simplest thing you can apply right now, today, you could, on your next date, you could look that woman in the eye and say, you are so charming and you're beautiful.

I'm so glad I'm on a date with you.

You're showing her that interest with clear statements of romantic intent.