Connell Barrett

Or if she does want a photo, then you can proceed there if you and she both sign off on it.

Anyway, sexting works when you and she are both on the same page.

So don't improvise solo here.

Um, next time lead with words, keep photos tasteful and save the nipples for somebody who's actually seen you naked.

Okay.

That's when you want to let a woman see your nipples is when you're together, not sending photos.

Okay.

One more question.

This one's a bit more bread and butter.

No more embarrassing questions.

Uh,

This is, oh, here's a good one.

Hey, Connell, when I'm on the apps, I'm afraid to double or triple text women because I don't want to sound like I'm tryhard.

How many messages should I send before asking for a date?

Signed, Chris.

Okay, Chris, how many messages should you send before asking for a date?

Send exactly 11 and three-fifths messages at alternating times of day, except in the central time zone, in which case it's 9.25 to the 11th power.

Did you get all that?

The real answer is the number of texts you send is, it's almost irrelevant.

Here's what I mean by that.