Connell Barrett

There's not a magic number.

Women don't care how often you text.

They care how much you bring to their love life.

And they gauge that online primarily through your profile.

your photos, your bio, and the story that you tell about yourself through your photos, through your profile.

So here's a case in point.

My client, Ben, came to me for coaching because he was finding it really hard to keep women interested on the dating apps.

He would message, but he just couldn't get women out on dates.

Very rarely got phone numbers and barely didn't get matches, very many, and it was hard for him to get a date online.

And he thought the problem was his texting.

He had me look at his texting and he said, hey, is my texting good enough?

Am I not asking them out at the right time?

But the problem wasn't his texting.

The problem was his profile, especially his photos.

His photos were meh.

And that's how women saw him, as meh.

And Ben is not a meh guy.

Ben is an amazing guy.

It's just that his profile was not showing that.

So we upgraded his photos, including a killer shot of him on the beach.