Connell Barrett
👤 SpeakerAppearances Over Time
Podcast Appearances
He's a surfer.
or I should say he's into surfing.
And we took a really cool photo of him surfing or with a surfboard showing off his authentic surfer dude vibe.
He's also got a really good physique.
He's a personal trainer and he just looks really good with his surfboard.
And within a week, boom, Ben had dozens of new matches and two or three dates lined up.
And one woman
even sent actually more than one, but at least one woman sent him her number unprompted in the very first message.
She wrote him, Hey, I love your profile.
We have to get together and talk surfing.
Here's my number.
How would you, and she was beautiful.
How would you like that for the first message from a woman?
Here's my phone number.
Text me.
How would that feel?
It feels incredible.
And by the way, Ben did not change his texting strategy.
He changed his profile.
So he wasn't counting texts.