Connell Barrett

When a woman is excited to meet you, just as you would be thrilled to date Ana de Armas,

your texting frequency becomes irrelevant, the number of texts.

So she'll be excited to hear from you.

Once you get a good enough profile and good enough photos, she will be so excited to hear from you, whether it's one text or 10.

So I know I intentionally didn't answer your question just because I want to serve and help you.

And the number of text messages is not nearly as important as just making sure your profile

shows women all that authentic value that you bring to the table.

So the question isn't how many texts should you send?

The real question is how do you get more women seeing you as their perfect 10, or at least a nice high number?

How do you get more women seeing that value, getting excited about you?

And once you do that, the number of messages, there's no magic number.

All that said, here's a good guideline.

Once you are messaging a woman and assuming you have a pretty good profile and she's interested in you, which obviously some women are, then here's my little guideline.

Typically, I'm going to say one or two conversation threads and then ask her out or ask her off the app.

So at least one, if not two.

So don't count texts.

Count conversation threads.

Let's say the first conversation thread is about dogs, her dog and your dog.

And then the second conversation thread is about Christmas plants.

Now you've looked at the messages, say to yourself, oh, we've now talked about two topics, then ask her out.