Connell Barrett
👤 SpeakerAppearances Over Time
Podcast Appearances
So that was a make or break moment.
So yeah, takeaway for you is look for those make or break approaching moments and decide to do it even if you're uncomfortable.
Okay, make or break moment number two is also about approaching.
Here's a quick story.
Fast forward a few more years, I'm now a professional dating coach.
It's in the mid-teens.
And I'm in a park in New York City with a couple of clients.
One of the things I do with my clients is we go out and approach girls together.
And I'm out with two clients, Joel and Chris, I believe, was the second fellow's name.
But I remember the Joel story.
So I'm giving Joel and Chris approaching girls.
Go talk to her.
Go say this.
And Joel walks over to a really pretty woman.
They're sitting on the bench.
The conversation's going really well.
She's smiling.
She's laughing.
It couldn't be going better.
I realize that Joel doesn't seem to need me.