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And I said, boom, there you go.

Go over and say those exact words because those words are true.

They're genuine.

They're authentic.

So he walks over with a head of steam and I'm about 50 yards behind him.

I couldn't hear because too far away, but I could see it.

So it played out like a silent movie because I couldn't hear the audio.

He walks over.

He stands up.

He stands above her.

She looks back up, smiles because, oh, yeah, Joel, the guy I was just talking to.

And I hear him say the thing.

I'm sorry.

I see him say the thing.

I couldn't hear it.

And I watch her face break out into a big, big, big grin.

And she puts her hand out.

as if to say, give me your phone.

And she takes his phone and puts her number in the phone, and they set up a date.

So the make or break moment I'm talking about here is once you start approaching women, once you finally start to do it, there's going to be a second moment of truth, a second make or break moment, which is just making that choice to play to win and not settle for a good conversation.