Connell Barrett

Make sure you ask for the date.

Joel was settling for a good conversation.

And that lower self, that voice of self-doubt will say to you, oh my gosh, I'm approaching a girl and it's actually going pretty good.

I don't want to ruin this good feeling.

So I am going to just settle for a nice conversation.

But if you do that, you're going to lose the chance of even meeting that woman.

Why are we doing this?

In large parts, you can find love, get dates.

So learn from Joel.

It's going to feel so much better if you just go for the phone number, go for the date.

By the way, there are times when you're going to go for a number, go for a date, and she won't be interested or she'll have a boyfriend.

That's fine too.

You might be surprised how good you feel when you just speak the truth.

Cool.

All right, let's go to make or break moment number three.

Let's switch to the dating apps.

I call this the online dating profile deal breaker.

Here's the make or break moment.

The make or break moment is she's on your profile.

And you probably think that it's all about the photos.