Connell Barrett

If you have good photos, you'll succeed.

If your photos aren't good, you'll fail.

And that's not quite true.

Really good, attractive photos that show your interesting, normal, authentic life, that will get a woman swiping through the rest of your profile.

But the make or break moment is when she then looks at your bio and your prompts.

And she says, oh, yeah, this guy's my type.

Or this guy made me laugh.

There's some personality.

There's some humor.

There's some realness that says to her, this is my kind of guy.

Or at least, at the very least, says to her, a date with him would be fun.

So that's the make or break moment.

It's what a woman experiences while looking at your profile.

I've had a lot of women...

say to me and my clients on dates, they've said things like, you know why I'm on a date with you?

You made me laugh on your profile.

That just got me giggling.

That thing you wrote about X or Y, the joke.

Or they said things like, oh, I like your photos, but what really made me want to meet you was I just wanted a date with a guy who likes some of the things I like.

Musical theater.