Connell Barrett

I'm a theater nerd, by the way.

So I've had a few dates with women over the years who are into theater, into the arts.

So your make or break moment, the make or break moment is the moment you give women on your profile.

So you're going to want to make sure, of course, you want to have good photos.

That's absolutely essential.

At the same time, you're also going to want at least one prompt that makes a woman laugh, literally makes her laugh out loud.

And also one part of your bio that conveys a clear, specific glimpse into who you are as a man so she can understand what kind of guy is this.

And in terms of a funny prompt, the one that has worked really well for me lately is, this is on my hinge and my bumble right now.

It says, if you like tall, handsome, charming, funny, financially secure, humble, successful men who love dogs and kids, dot, dot, dot, then you should be my brother.

A lot of women laugh at that.

And I get a lot of messages saying, hey, I really want to meet your brother, Connell.

Is he free?

And I might say, oh, sorry.

My brother is happily married, but I'm available.

And there's something about making a woman laugh that gets the matches and that gets her to swipe right on you and really consider a date with you.

So

Remember, good photos will get her looking at your profile.

By the way, bad photos will get women swiping left in less than two seconds.

Good photos will get her swiping through your profile.

What will seal the deal is one piece of your bio that makes her laugh because your authentic sense of humor is coming out and also that she gets a sense for who you are as a guy.