Connell Barrett

He actually is funny, but he wasn't being what I call man to woman.

Let me pull back for a second and share this.

There are only three social channels to communicate on which to communicate with women.

Here are the three channels.

Every single conversation you have with a woman falls into one of three channels.

One channel is friend to friend, the way you talk to friends.

The second channel is business slash transactional, you know, the way you communicate at work or in a transactional business setting.

Like the waitress is coming over, she's talking about the food order.

She's not talking personally with you, probably.

And the third channel is man-to-woman communication.

So if you are ever struggling with not getting second dates, if you're in the quote-unquote friend zone, it's very likely because you are talking in a more friendly way and or transactional, logical way.

Not in a man-to-woman way.

And that's what Trevor was doing wrong.

So I gave Trevor some marching orders.

He has a first date with a woman named Becca.

Becca is a chef here in New York City.

And she had had several dates with guys that didn't go well.

She basically was putting guys in their friend zone left and right.

She didn't want to.

She just wasn't feeling what women need to feel.