Connell Barrett
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Their date is Friday night.
He doesn't text her at all.
And come Friday morning or late morning, he shoots her a text and just says, hey, just checking to make sure we're still on for tonight.
And she writes him back.
Honestly, she said, to be honest, I've lost interest.
I didn't hear from you.
And you don't seem like you're that into this.
So I made other plans for tonight.
Sorry.
And she was well within her rights to say that.
I'm on her side here.
And it was a really valuable lesson for Nick to keep the text cadence going.
It's a make or break moment.
Once you and she agree to the date,
You don't know for sure she won't flake.
And flaking is usually not the woman's fault.
It's usually a result of the mistake the man makes by going quiet, either texting poorly or not texting at all.
So you want to keep a cadence going during dates.
It's not enough to just set up a date.
Most women like at least a little bit of messaging leading up to a date.