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Just so happened she had a coupon or some kind of credit for a couple's massage.

And she said, you know what we should do for our second date?

She's sitting on his lap.

And he said, sure, sounds good.

And their second date was a romantic couple's massage.

I couldn't make this shit up.

So.

The main takeaway I want you to have from this is your job on a date is to show up authentically, to be present, to be yourself.

It's also to lead and to get on that man to woman wavelength.

If you get on that man to woman wavelength, then you're not going to get in the friend zone very often, maybe never.

And you're going to have some really great dates with women.

I can't promise you you're going to have a romantic relationship.

our X-rated couples massage for a second date.

But actually, if you work with me, you might.

Okay, let's go to make or break moment number five.

Let's talk about make or break moment number five, do or die moment, keeping the text momentum going between dates.

This can cost you a date, sadly.

I have a good buddy, my client friend, Nick.

Nick recently matched with a woman on Bumble.

classic match situation bread and butter he's doing everything perfectly got the date set up got off of the app off of bumble set up the date for about six days away that was the day they were both free let's say that's on a sunday and their dates on friday night okay um he goes quiet no texting he does not text her the rest of sunday monday tuesday wednesday or thursday