Connor

Um, and it has, there have been instances where she's been okay, um, eating, but you know, the more I learn about it, the scarier it gets.

Yeah, it is.

And one of the, one of the questions that I have is like, um, yeah, when she, when she told me about it at first, it's such a foreign, it was such a foreign thing to me at the time.

I kind of just froze up and it took a while for me to process it.

And still, when some of those, the, you know, the things that she says to herself in front of me, when that happens, sometimes it can be difficult to know what to say.

Cause I know it's like a,

It's an area where I have to tread lightly, like you were saying.

I shouldn't be her therapist.

So I have trouble picking out what exactly to say to support her in that moment.

And so if things were to take a turn for the worse in her situation, what does that look like?

You know, um,

What does it look like putting our relationship on the line to get her better?

What steps?

it's just scary to deal with like yeah i don't know when i mean you know i our relationship started in the midst of her situation you know when she tells me about the weight that she's lost it's just terrifying yeah it's scary it's very scary

And do you have any advice on where I could go to just to gain a better understanding of, I guess, the psychology behind it?

just so I can, I don't know.

Cause I still feel like, you know, I've, I've tried to learn as much as I can, but it's still just like, it still does just seem so foreign.

Lisa is on the phone today for a first date follow-up, and she's getting ghosted by a guy named Connor.

So in a few minutes, we'll call him and see if he'll tell us why he's ghosting her and maybe get her a second date.

But first, Lisa, why do you think you're getting ghosted?