Dan Savage

If you're in an early voting state, please vote now if you haven't already. And while we're on do's and don'ts, do vote Harris, do vote blue, no matter who. Don't vote for Trump. Don't vote third party because that's also a vote for Trump. And voting for Trump, the ultimate don't. All right, on the show today, tons of your cues, lots of my A's, and our guest this week, comedian Des Bishop.

We talk about his new stand-up special, sex moves that might surprise a straight man like him, straight guys into butt stuff on the receiving end, play parties, and so much more. There's a little of my conversation with Des on the micro for all of my convo with Des, and ad-free shows and invites to Savage Love Live and more perks. Become a Magnum subscriber right now at savage.love.com.

We talk about his new stand-up special, sex moves that might surprise a straight man like him, straight guys into butt stuff on the receiving end, play parties, and so much more. There's a little of my conversation with Des on the micro for all of my convo with Des, and ad-free shows and invites to Savage Love Live and more perks. Become a Magnum subscriber right now at savage.love.com.

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I'm really glad for you that you found this outlet burlesque and that dancing and becoming a part of the burlesque community and meeting some people who are out and by and non-binary helped you find the courage to tell your husband something that that you'd known all your adult life, that you're bisexual.

I'm really glad for you that you found this outlet burlesque and that dancing and becoming a part of the burlesque community and meeting some people who are out and by and non-binary helped you find the courage to tell your husband something that that you'd known all your adult life, that you're bisexual.

But listening to your call, I just... awakens the social conservative in me, or just the conservative in me. I'm not a social conservative, not at all. Because I just kept thinking about whether this is the right time not to...

But listening to your call, I just... awakens the social conservative in me, or just the conservative in me. I'm not a social conservative, not at all. Because I just kept thinking about whether this is the right time not to...

have your own individual passionate pursuit of dancing and burlesque, but to force this issue with your husband around public sex, around opening up your relationship, around you wanting to go to the sex club, not as a performer hustled into the green room and then onto the stage, but as a client, as a guest, as an attendee of a sex party,

have your own individual passionate pursuit of dancing and burlesque, but to force this issue with your husband around public sex, around opening up your relationship, around you wanting to go to the sex club, not as a performer hustled into the green room and then onto the stage, but as a client, as a guest, as an attendee of a sex party,

Because you have an infant, you have a one-year-old a year, nine months ago and change you and your husband decided scramble your DNA together and have a baby. And so the stakes are really high here.

Because you have an infant, you have a one-year-old a year, nine months ago and change you and your husband decided scramble your DNA together and have a baby. And so the stakes are really high here.

It's not just about you and not just about your husband, not just about you two as a couple, as a going concern, but you two as parents who have taken on together consciously the awesome responsibility of seeing this kid through to self-sufficiency. Having an infant, I think it's a really great opportunity

It's not just about you and not just about your husband, not just about you two as a couple, as a going concern, but you two as parents who have taken on together consciously the awesome responsibility of seeing this kid through to self-sufficiency. Having an infant, I think it's a really great opportunity

statement about who your husband is that he and you two together have made the time for you to go out there and Do burlesque and get back in touch with your body and I think it's great. I think it's really imperative for parents even new parents not to lose their sense of themselves and their individuality in their identities as Parents, I think it makes parents better

statement about who your husband is that he and you two together have made the time for you to go out there and Do burlesque and get back in touch with your body and I think it's great. I think it's really imperative for parents even new parents not to lose their sense of themselves and their individuality in their identities as Parents, I think it makes parents better

calmer, more confident, loving, and attentive parents to their children when they still have some time off alone or together. But an infant, a one-year-old, you're still in that really high pressure, high intensity relay race stage, right? of parenting where this kid is with one or the other or both of you at all times.