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Or you can just say to her, look, it feels irrational, but I feel weird watching this with you. And then maybe she'll say, yeah, it is a little weird. Or she'll say the perfect thing that sets you at ease. Maybe something she's said to others of her husband's partners about their sex that she has watched or witnessed in the past. And you'll feel better about this. You need to let go.

Or you can just say to her, look, it feels irrational, but I feel weird watching this with you. And then maybe she'll say, yeah, it is a little weird. Or she'll say the perfect thing that sets you at ease. Maybe something she's said to others of her husband's partners about their sex that she has watched or witnessed in the past. And you'll feel better about this. You need to let go.

You can't control this. You created this content. You submitted it to this film festival. Tickets are available now. HumpFilmFest.com for the 20th anniversary part one tour of Hump. And once your OnlyFans is live, she can watch that too. So control what you can control. Don't worry about what you can't.

You can't control this. You created this content. You submitted it to this film festival. Tickets are available now. HumpFilmFest.com for the 20th anniversary part one tour of Hump. And once your OnlyFans is live, she can watch that too. So control what you can control. Don't worry about what you can't.

And you can't ultimately anymore control whether your boyfriend or your partner or your play partner's spouse gets to see you two going at it. And thank you again for entering Hump. No Hump without Humpers. No Hump without the Hump filmmakers. Thank you. This episode is brought to you by Field. No more dates that feel like job interviews.

And you can't ultimately anymore control whether your boyfriend or your partner or your play partner's spouse gets to see you two going at it. And thank you again for entering Hump. No Hump without Humpers. No Hump without the Hump filmmakers. Thank you. This episode is brought to you by Field. No more dates that feel like job interviews.

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