Dan Savage

Excellent point, Claire. Thank you so much.

Excellent point, Claire. Thank you so much.

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Your brother's just being an asshole. There's a tweet that goes viral. every year around Thanksgiving. And I'm just going to read it. My younger brother is trans. My parents have been horrendous about dead naming him and misgendering him. At Thanksgiving, I used an air horn to correct them. I fixed a two to three year long problem in two seconds. 10 out of 10 would recommend this training.

Your brother's just being an asshole. There's a tweet that goes viral. every year around Thanksgiving. And I'm just going to read it. My younger brother is trans. My parents have been horrendous about dead naming him and misgendering him. At Thanksgiving, I used an air horn to correct them. I fixed a two to three year long problem in two seconds. 10 out of 10 would recommend this training.

method you could the next time you hang out with your brother particularly if your niece is present you could have an air horn in your pocket and every time he misgenders your niece his daughter and sons him or he hims him you press that air horn button and blast him You could fix it. Maybe it'll work.

method you could the next time you hang out with your brother particularly if your niece is present you could have an air horn in your pocket and every time he misgenders your niece his daughter and sons him or he hims him you press that air horn button and blast him You could fix it. Maybe it'll work.

Nobody knows if this tweet that goes viral, if this is true or if this is just wishful thinking. 1010, I can't recommend it. I don't know anybody who's actually tried it. Maybe you could try it and give us a call back and let us know. your brother's just being an asshole. And he knows what he's doing. He's expressing his contempt and withholding his support.

Nobody knows if this tweet that goes viral, if this is true or if this is just wishful thinking. 1010, I can't recommend it. I don't know anybody who's actually tried it. Maybe you could try it and give us a call back and let us know. your brother's just being an asshole. And he knows what he's doing. He's expressing his contempt and withholding his support.