Dan Savage

And as one out queer person to another, uh, You could have spared yourself a lot of grief and drama if when he told you he was closeted, which came a long time, that was a lie, but he told you that he was closeted. If you had said, yeah, no, don't date closet kids. You're 36 years old. You're a full-grown queer ass, gay adult, queer adult living in the city. Don't waste your time on closeted guys.

And as one out queer person to another, uh, You could have spared yourself a lot of grief and drama if when he told you he was closeted, which came a long time, that was a lie, but he told you that he was closeted. If you had said, yeah, no, don't date closet kids. You're 36 years old. You're a full-grown queer ass, gay adult, queer adult living in the city. Don't waste your time on closeted guys.

When you're 20... giving somebody some space and time to come out because they're still young and they're figuring it out and they're, you know, triaging their relationships with their family in school and trying to like find the right moment to come out. Okay. There's an allowance you can make when somebody is young, but when somebody is a fully grown ass, gay adult with a badge and a gun. Yeah.

When you're 20... giving somebody some space and time to come out because they're still young and they're figuring it out and they're, you know, triaging their relationships with their family in school and trying to like find the right moment to come out. Okay. There's an allowance you can make when somebody is young, but when somebody is a fully grown ass, gay adult with a badge and a gun. Yeah.

And they're closeted. Waste of time. You should have dumped him then. I don't know why he was closeted. He was closeted about being not closeted. He's lying to you about that and closeted about having a boyfriend, having a partner all that time. You thought you were his partner. So don't be bitter. Keep that heart open.

And they're closeted. Waste of time. You should have dumped him then. I don't know why he was closeted. He was closeted about being not closeted. He's lying to you about that and closeted about having a boyfriend, having a partner all that time. You thought you were his partner. So don't be bitter. Keep that heart open.

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So I just listened to your call, but your call came in a few weeks ago.

So I just listened to your call, but your call came in a few weeks ago.