Dan Savage

And it sends a little blast of oxytocin through my brain that makes my day a little brighter, but doesn't make me appreciate the people in my life I'm actually having sex with any less. Was that the thing that people used to say when I was a child?

And it sends a little blast of oxytocin through my brain that makes my day a little brighter, but doesn't make me appreciate the people in my life I'm actually having sex with any less. Was that the thing that people used to say when I was a child?

I overheard adults, straight, monogamous, married, adult, friends of my parents, and even my parents say this, this thing they used to say, I'm married, not dead, which meant, yeah, I'm committed to this one person, but I can appreciate the beauty and attractiveness of others. I can take that in. And for better or worse,

I overheard adults, straight, monogamous, married, adult, friends of my parents, and even my parents say this, this thing they used to say, I'm married, not dead, which meant, yeah, I'm committed to this one person, but I can appreciate the beauty and attractiveness of others. I can take that in. And for better or worse,

In this age of social media, the way we take most of the world in, sadly, is looking at our phones. And so you're occasionally... checking somebody out and then deciding to follow them because it would be a treat for you, for that person to cross your path every once in a while. That's all it is when you follow a hot person on Instagram.

In this age of social media, the way we take most of the world in, sadly, is looking at our phones. And so you're occasionally... checking somebody out and then deciding to follow them because it would be a treat for you, for that person to cross your path every once in a while. That's all it is when you follow a hot person on Instagram.

They pop up into your feed, they cross your path, just like the girl from Ipanema walking down the goddamn beach, right? And you should be allowed that. And an adult, a mature adult, doesn't dig through all of their partner's likes and follows on Instagram for evidence of what? For evidence of what they should assume to be true.

They pop up into your feed, they cross your path, just like the girl from Ipanema walking down the goddamn beach, right? And you should be allowed that. And an adult, a mature adult, doesn't dig through all of their partner's likes and follows on Instagram for evidence of what? For evidence of what they should assume to be true.

Their partner sometimes likes to check out other people and does online. Unfortunately, it leaves a digital trail of evidence that an insecure bag of slop like your ex-girlfriend, count your blessings that she is your ex-girlfriend, can then... have big feelings about and blow up otherwise good and wonderful relationships with a lot of potential. You sound like a catch.

Their partner sometimes likes to check out other people and does online. Unfortunately, it leaves a digital trail of evidence that an insecure bag of slop like your ex-girlfriend, count your blessings that she is your ex-girlfriend, can then... have big feelings about and blow up otherwise good and wonderful relationships with a lot of potential. You sound like a catch.

You sound like a guy that a smart, well-adjusted, functional adult woman could partner with long-term. She is never going to find a guy who doesn't break her stupid rules about what the men in her life are allowed to do or think or look at and when they're allowed to masturbate and what they're allowed to masturbate about. When she told you that story, assuming she told it to you before this whole

You sound like a guy that a smart, well-adjusted, functional adult woman could partner with long-term. She is never going to find a guy who doesn't break her stupid rules about what the men in her life are allowed to do or think or look at and when they're allowed to masturbate and what they're allowed to masturbate about. When she told you that story, assuming she told it to you before this whole

Ajita's broke out should have broken up with her then because that was somebody telling you who they are and you should believe them like my aunt was like the first time she was telling you that she doesn't want a man she wants a toaster with a dildo duct tape to it you're well rid of her and you didn't have the presence of mind because you couldn't see into the future you didn't realize what it was she was telling you to dump her then and she has now done you the favor of dumping herself count your blessings and follow whoever the fuck you want

Ajita's broke out should have broken up with her then because that was somebody telling you who they are and you should believe them like my aunt was like the first time she was telling you that she doesn't want a man she wants a toaster with a dildo duct tape to it you're well rid of her and you didn't have the presence of mind because you couldn't see into the future you didn't realize what it was she was telling you to dump her then and she has now done you the favor of dumping herself count your blessings and follow whoever the fuck you want

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