Danette

Neither can I, for that matter.

I, however, have been trying to move forward in life, improve myself in different ways, and figure out what I want in life.

The more he stays stuck in place, the more I feel like our lives are diverging onto different paths.

Since he's never had anything more than arbitrary ideas of, quote, I've become more disillusioned with marriage.

I love him, but I'm truly exhausted trying to help someone who won't help themselves.

I just don't know what to do.

Jerry, you've told stories about how you've had relationships that you ended long after you should have.

I fear that I might be in a similar position.

Or do you see a way for us to come back together to repair this?

How can I figure out what I want and what I need to do?

Everyone sitting here, yeah.

You know, I think there's two different issues here.

I think one, you're checking out, which is okay.

I think you've been in each other's lives and you've served purposes and you've learned valuable lessons and you've experienced this great love.

But at this point in time, I think your heart is out of it for whatever reason.

And that is totally fair and fine.

You've moved past it.

And I'm going to get into your additional info and ideal outcome.

But I want to bring this up because no one's touched on it yet.

He's 34.