Dani Chammas
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first heard Apr 2020
last heard Dec 2024
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And it's not always avoidance with anger, right?
Like I recently had an angry patient and I had the opposite enactment.
I was so concerned about wanting this guy to like me that I let our visits run over a bunch.
I started bending over backwards,
Not my normal clinical practice, definitely a deviation, but it's just interesting how differently it can be enacted if we haven't taken the time to look at what's getting triggered inside of us.
This is a nice way to lead to step two,
Yes, there are three steps.
So step one, we've looked within just like you said, right?
If we're feeling something different, if we're acting differently.
So step two is ask why, right?
What is underneath this for the patient?
What's the why behind this anger?
And it's actually really hard to do step one or step two if we haven't done step one.
We get stuck on our
feelings too much to get into it.
So
We're asking in our minds why.
minds.
Why are you so angry?
No, we ask why in our minds, right?
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