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Daniel Goleman

πŸ‘€ Speaker
494 total appearances

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Podcast Appearances

Sonia and Simon
The #1 Skill Nobody Taught You | Daniel Goleman on Emotional Intelligence

And, you know, you see it like years later, wherever they are, as seen through the eyes, by the way, of other people, which is very important because we can fool ourselves.

Sonia and Simon
The #1 Skill Nobody Taught You | Daniel Goleman on Emotional Intelligence

Well, Simon, I don't know about your gut, and I don't know about my gut, but we do get those feelings, and they may or they may not be true.

Sonia and Simon
The #1 Skill Nobody Taught You | Daniel Goleman on Emotional Intelligence

So one argument is that the mind...

Sonia and Simon
The #1 Skill Nobody Taught You | Daniel Goleman on Emotional Intelligence

holds more information than it tells us consciously.

Sonia and Simon
The #1 Skill Nobody Taught You | Daniel Goleman on Emotional Intelligence

That is, that we know more than we realize.

Sonia and Simon
The #1 Skill Nobody Taught You | Daniel Goleman on Emotional Intelligence

And that gut feeling may be an intuition that you should act on because it's based on really good information.

Sonia and Simon
The #1 Skill Nobody Taught You | Daniel Goleman on Emotional Intelligence

On the other hand, that gut feeling may be based on some bias or some fear or some anxiety.

Sonia and Simon
The #1 Skill Nobody Taught You | Daniel Goleman on Emotional Intelligence

And so you shouldn't necessarily trust it.

Sonia and Simon
The #1 Skill Nobody Taught You | Daniel Goleman on Emotional Intelligence

I think self-awareness may be important here in trying to distinguish

Sonia and Simon
The #1 Skill Nobody Taught You | Daniel Goleman on Emotional Intelligence

Well, should I trust my gut or should I not?

Sonia and Simon
The #1 Skill Nobody Taught You | Daniel Goleman on Emotional Intelligence

If you think you're basing it on good data, good information, go ahead.

Sonia and Simon
The #1 Skill Nobody Taught You | Daniel Goleman on Emotional Intelligence

A lot of entrepreneurs, for example, will swear by gut feeling.

Sonia and Simon
The #1 Skill Nobody Taught You | Daniel Goleman on Emotional Intelligence

And a lot of businesses go belly up because the entrepreneur's gut feeling wasn't right.

Sonia and Simon
The #1 Skill Nobody Taught You | Daniel Goleman on Emotional Intelligence

So it can go either way.

Sonia and Simon
The #1 Skill Nobody Taught You | Daniel Goleman on Emotional Intelligence

So one kind of leader is a very inspiring leader who can speak from the heart to the heart.

Sonia and Simon
The #1 Skill Nobody Taught You | Daniel Goleman on Emotional Intelligence

who really moves people because he's able to sense not just what he believes or she believes, but what other people will be moved by and articulate it that way.

Sonia and Simon
The #1 Skill Nobody Taught You | Daniel Goleman on Emotional Intelligence

These are very powerful kinds of leaders.

Sonia and Simon
The #1 Skill Nobody Taught You | Daniel Goleman on Emotional Intelligence

Another kind of leader, very different style, is command and control leader.

Sonia and Simon
The #1 Skill Nobody Taught You | Daniel Goleman on Emotional Intelligence

Someone who says, do it my way, I'm the boss.

Sonia and Simon
The #1 Skill Nobody Taught You | Daniel Goleman on Emotional Intelligence

Mm-hmm.