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Daniel Smith

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170 total appearances

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Something You Should Know
How to Get People to Say Yes & What Your Darkest Emotions Mean

When I think about regret, regret is always an emotion that I wonder, maybe there's no value to this one at all.

Something You Should Know
How to Get People to Say Yes & What Your Darkest Emotions Mean

Maybe this one's just a glitch.

Something You Should Know
How to Get People to Say Yes & What Your Darkest Emotions Mean

Because regret is essentially a desire for a time machine.

Something You Should Know
How to Get People to Say Yes & What Your Darkest Emotions Mean

Regret is, I wish I could turn back time and do it differently.

Something You Should Know
How to Get People to Say Yes & What Your Darkest Emotions Mean

And I have trouble finding any value, really, in regret.

Something You Should Know
How to Get People to Say Yes & What Your Darkest Emotions Mean

Remorse...

Something You Should Know
How to Get People to Say Yes & What Your Darkest Emotions Mean

guilt, these things have a kind of healing function, but regret seems to be a kind of pure fantasy and also addictive to boot.

Something You Should Know
How to Get People to Say Yes & What Your Darkest Emotions Mean

There's no value except in hearing what you're doing and remembering that there's no value in it.

Something You Should Know
How to Get People to Say Yes & What Your Darkest Emotions Mean

And that usually you can actually still change things.

Something You Should Know
How to Get People to Say Yes & What Your Darkest Emotions Mean

You can still adjust your circumstances.

Something You Should Know
How to Get People to Say Yes & What Your Darkest Emotions Mean

You can still act.

Something You Should Know
How to Get People to Say Yes & What Your Darkest Emotions Mean

Regret tells you that

Something You Should Know
How to Get People to Say Yes & What Your Darkest Emotions Mean

you can turn back time and change the situation.

Something You Should Know
How to Get People to Say Yes & What Your Darkest Emotions Mean

And it could be in an imaginative sense kind of addictive because you can go back and imagine the way things could have been.

Something You Should Know
How to Get People to Say Yes & What Your Darkest Emotions Mean

What you're not doing during that imagination is remembering and recognizing that you could usually still change your own lot.

Something You Should Know
How to Get People to Say Yes & What Your Darkest Emotions Mean

You could still make amends.

Something You Should Know
How to Get People to Say Yes & What Your Darkest Emotions Mean

You can still move forward.

Something You Should Know
How to Get People to Say Yes & What Your Darkest Emotions Mean

You can still change your life.

Something You Should Know
How to Get People to Say Yes & What Your Darkest Emotions Mean

You get stuck in regret.

Something You Should Know
How to Get People to Say Yes & What Your Darkest Emotions Mean

People get stuck in regret.