Daphne Joy

So it's been going well, though.

It's being received well.

And as far as would he have a chance or a date with me?

Yeah.

Maybe.

um i mean as i said to him i definitely um i like for a man to just go big and you know show me what they've got before you know right getting on a first date with me so whatever that means for them how is that kind of transaction facilitated like hey i'd like to take you on a day what's that cash app oh that sort of thing no no no

right so i do agree with you that the dating world has changed in that sense but um i'm definitely still more old-fashioned in the courting style i definitely would like to have a man speak to me and get to know me and you know we get to know each other first and then we can agree to go on a first date and um on that first date you know

It would be nice, you know, if he opens my door like, you know, pulls up in his best outfit, smells good, looks good and takes me to a nice restaurant.

And, you know, we just, you know, have nice conversation and get to know each other.

but i'm being expected to like constantly kind of break the bank yeah you know like that that to me is just very foreign like i want you to like me for me of course and that's why i bring up the courting and just having that i feel like it is a little bit disheartening that like people have i mean i don't know but people have kind of taken the

the fun out of it you know i feel like the fun is the leading up to it's like foreplay you know you want to start from the toes to the legs to the knees to the kisses you don't want to have the whole shebang right there because then

it just takes away like the, the essence of the unity, like the, the passion and like the love that like the desire, you know, because as I'm speaking to somebody from across the table, I, I start to notice like,

their ears their eyes they're the way they speak and like their cadence like their hands like you know their muscles like then I start you know I can't really I although I don't disagree with some women who choose to just be like hey you know this is what it is um I prefer to have the the build-up for sure I like I like a build-up and then we just kind of see from there and

Nine out of 10 times or maybe 10 out of 10 times.

If there is like fireworks or sparks between me and my significant other, then, you know, they definitely start to want me in their lives.

There's never any force.

I never said that.

No, I didn't say that either.

I said it's all about the motion in the ocean.

No, and there's other things that we can do to pleasure ourselves.