Darryl Anka
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first heard Jul 2026
last heard 21 Jul
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Even though it may seem paradoxical, being your authentic self, even in the face of other people not necessarily wanting you to be, is actually the most loving thing you can do for them.
Because then they get to see who they're actually in a relationship with, instead of you being someone you're not, which is not being truthful to them about who you are and who they're in a relationship with.
And all you're doing by trying to be someone you're not is reinforcing the fear-based beliefs that they're buying into instead of giving them a chance to change their mind by seeing what works for you that could be working for them in a better way too.
So that's part of being a living example of someone who is finding a better path in life, a more authentic path,
a preferable path, a more enjoyable path, a more loving path, more creative path.
And being that living example so that people can, if they're not afraid of doing that for themselves, can see in you, well, how are you doing that?
How are you so happy?
How is this working for you?
I want to know because I want that to work for me too.
So then you become the living example that is of service to others to show them, well, this is what worked for me.
This is the path I took.
You'll probably take something a little different, but something similar.
So it starts with being your authentic self.
Yeah, but it also goes back to the ancient phrase, know thyself.
Because you can't fool yourself into thinking you're being an authentic self because a lot of people think they're being authentic and they're not.
They're actually losing track of who they are and they're going way out beyond where they need to go.
A lot of people have these misguided ideas of what it means to be your authentic self and they just think they can just do anything they want without any respect for any boundaries or anything.
So being your authentic self means that
you automatically and instinctively know how to respect other people's boundaries as well.
Because as Bashar says, you act on your passion to the degree you are able.
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