Dave Cawley
speaker
1,287 appearances
3 recordings
1 series
first heard Sep 2026
last heard 3d ago
Dave Cawley’s voice in public audio — every appearance, attributed to the second.
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Heidi can't pinpoint exactly when her dad first started abusing her.
Tom controlled the narrative when the abuse first came to light, as you'll soon hear.
Tom would separate the girls from their brothers, then tell them they were going to play a game.
Tom's games were designed to make the girls touch him in a sexual manner.
This went on under the noses of their mom, their siblings, everyone.
Tom succeeded in keeping the abuse hidden until one night in nineteen eighty six.
It was Tory's ninth birthday.
Now if you're wondering why the parents of these neighbor girls didn't go to police themselves, so am I.
But remember, Tom was a former cop.
The other parents might not have trusted police to take their word against his.
What's more, people in closed religious communities sometimes view clergy as the higher authority.
So that's probably why Jerry found out about the abuse from their bishop.
was
She tried to ask her daughters about it, but Heidi and Tori wouldn't talk.
So Jerry failed to grasp the full scope of the problem, believing Tom had made the overture.
One time
But nothing more.
Jerry says Tom downplayed what he had done and turned the blame back on her.
minimize and you know and if I paid more attention to him.
This is a common tactic you will sometimes hear called DARVO, an acronym that stands for deny, attack, reverse victim and offender.
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