Dave Ramsey

And you just say, food...

shelter lights and water and pay off the stinking car and that's all i am breathing to do right now i breathe in and out every morning i'm tired because i work all the time but by god i'm making progress for the first time in five years yes you can do this you can do it what was the nature of your mental illness stuff

Here's the thing.

Here's what I've worked with in 35 years of doing this.

I've worked with a whole bunch of people.

that both had high level functioning autism and I've worked with a whole bunch of people that had depression.

And the thing I know is the depression is made worse when you feel trapped.

and when you're not in action mode.

When you get in action mode and get in warrior mode and get in attack mode, it helps because it releases the dopamine and other things, and it helps to melt away the depression.

And the high-functioning autism can actually work in your favor in those situations because you have the ability to do extreme amounts of focus, don't you?

Okay.

And anything you can do to help people work out, if you could do a personal trainer thing going like that.

I was going to say you need to go to the school system to teach it.

What we're going to do is use all of this situation to your advantage.

to that that's the thing that has been a blocker for you but because as you start melting away these debts first and foremost you get this car off your back off your mother's back your brain is going to clear up the fog that you've been walking in the stress-related anxiety of feeling trapped in 16 and feeling honestly shame about signing up for 16 too that was dumb so

You're not dumb, but that was dumb.

So, you know, what you do is you get an attack mode warrior girl.

You put on your warrior stuff and you get after it.

Complete focus.

I don't want you to pay anybody else.