Dave Ramsey

You get a vote.

We're going to spend our money together.

You are agreeing on what you fear.

You are agreeing on your dreams.

You are agreeing on your values.

You are agreeing on what we're going to be generous with.

And when you don't combine it, you don't have all that agreement.

And so a level of unity, a level of oneness is missing from your relationship.

I'm telling you, man, your relationship will double in quality when she gives this up.

And by the way, the law says otherwise.

But that's what's- The law protects that.

Yeah, just the problem is if you don't, you're lowering the quality of your marriage, the probability of your marriage working, and you're lowering the probability of building wealth.

The data tells us all that.

Those are facts.

It's not a feeling and it's not a spiritual statement.

It's a data-based statement.

And we know that from having done this for 30 years and have studied.

We research project a research project out there on this.

And so young man, if you're out there and you want to get married and you want to never be told what to do,

Never have someone have an opinion on whether you go by and have a beer after work or never have.