Dave Ramsey
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The only thing you can do is encourage your husband to have a backbone.
And this is out of line.
The boundaries are, there's no boundaries here.
This is ridiculous.
and it needs to stop yesterday.
Tell him you want the locks changed and you want him to call his mother and tell her to not come in your home without clearing it with both of you first, that you're a married couple and this is weird and she shouldn't be doing this.
Mom, we love you.
Thank you for the help.
You can't do this anymore.
I've changed the locks.
Your key's not good anymore and you don't need to come in our home anymore.
It's a real short, calm conversation.
And he needs to man up and do that.
If he cannot do that, you do not have a mother-in-law problem.
You have a husband problem and you'll need to sit down with a marriage counselor.
Correct.
Leave and cleave.
That's right.
Leave your mother and father.
We need to figure out how to do these things on our own.